How does one succeed in life?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why do some people tell the girl I like that I don’t like her when I do like her?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Is it true that schizophrenia can sometimes be a demonic attack or black magic?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can someone in your family purposely try to destroy your reputation?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What habits do happy couples have?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Does not procrastinate.

I’m 17 and looking for a girl. What do I do?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I handle my distrust and jealousy for my partner?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What’s something you did a lot as a kid that you don’t miss now that you’re an adult?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What did Chandrashekhar Azad say about Hinduism during a podcast?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is it like to date a women 20 years younger than yourself?

Making more friends is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

While emptying a house, have you ever seen something in it that blew your mind?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What I need from you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hangs out with loser friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

That's it for today.